I don’t know about you, but my wood chopping and water carrying days were pretty much completed a couple incarnations ago. This blog will stick to topics I face in my modern life, such as post awakening dinner parties and the quirks of marital sex after sudden spiritual enlightenment.
Kundalini is a huge topic that we’ll touch on from many different angles. Today we’ll talk about the build up of energy during sex and the release of that energy through the central channel. This normally gets released downward, but after awakening, it can reverse, releasing upward into one of your upper chakras, such as the third eye or crown.
Rather than building up this energy and jettisoning it out of your first chakra (which feeds entities who live off of it), this reversal does a couple of interesting things. First, it keeps this amazing energy within your system. Second, when it releases into one of your higher chakras, it activates, energizes and nourishes it.
As the energy is building, the body remains relaxed, even the pelvic muscles. The mind is relaxed. When the energy reaches its maximum, it ascends powerfully and flows into one of your upper centers. This can sometimes be accompanied by spontaneous yogic postures or sounds, called Krias.
Does this sound really cool? Well, I won’t lie. It is. And it’s also very disturbing if you don’t know what is going on. It can also be really upsetting and freaky for your partner. Think about it.
Assuming this is someone you have a history with and not someone you just met, your new sex style can be interpreted in all manner of ways. You could feel very alien, you could seem possessed, it may feel like you are on another plane of existence, leaving your partner feeling alienated. If you’re getting your Krias on, it could be really awkward indeed.
I was lucky to have a Gemini husband with an Aquarius rising and Aquarius moon. Any form of novelty was embraced with enthusiasm, in or out of bed. If your partner is a little more sensitive or traditional, you may have a harder time of it.
So, how is that post enlightenment sex going for you? Do tell.
note: I’ve heard that this Kundalini reversal of sex energy into the upper chakras can take place even when a person has not fully awakened. Kundalini activation is sometimes mistaken for awakening, but they are not the same thing, though they do often happen together.